1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he rarely turns his back to you, often leans towards you, and also looks at you a lot. Both his feet will point towards you if he's comfortable with you, but if he's uncomfortable with you, one foot will be pointing at you and the other will be pointing towards another direction.
2.Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he may either look away quickly if he is shy, or he'll try to catch your eye and hold it or make faces. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there. When he's around you and he says/does something funny and everyone around laughs, his eyes will flicker towards you for a second to see if you laughed, too.
â–ºHis pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes. If you're around him for a long time, it could be easier to pick up on gradually.
Hint: If you like him, your pupils may be dilated. Check a mirror, then see if his eyes are similar.
3.When a guy likes you he will try and make himself seem impressive to you
Listen to what he's saying. If he likes you, and he's nervous, he'll probably start talking about himself. Many times, guys feel the need to prove themselves- especially if you talk about another guy in his company.
4.Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, and won't move his leg if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you.
5.Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest bands or artists for you to listen to. Another example, if you play sports he may ask to play against you just to show off that he's good at something you both like and then also have a reason to give you compliments as well.
6.Notice the way he treats you - does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It's natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren't attracted to them. Also, keep in mind that some guys simply will not tease you.
7.Check for signs of nervousness Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
Notice these tell-tale signs:
If he wants to talk to you all the time,
If he was acting like you're his friend but stopped doing embarrassing things in front of you,
If you turn around and you catch him looking at you,
If he starts acting nicer when you're around him,
If he says "yes" to all the things you ask him to do,
If he treats you differently than others,
If he tries to sit next to you at work, in class, at lunch, or play on a team with you during Gym/Recess
If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh,
If you catch him sneaking a glance at you and he quickly turns away when he realizes that you saw him,and you see him blush,
If he acts immaturely around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you (e.g. when you touch him he might touch you back)
If you ask him for a pencil and he gives it to you, then you try and give it back and he says to keep it, there is a huge chance he might like you but be careful, he may know that you like him and he might be playing with your emotions!
If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
If he tries to make you laugh,
If he tries to copy you,
If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
If he's immature he will act different around you, quiet and maybe even try to avoid you. Or, he'll act different around you than when he's just with his friends.
If he constantly calls you and uses an excuse -such as What was the homework?
If he goes out of his way to talk to you (e.g. if he goes to the other side of your school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there),
If you see him staring at something by turning his head 90 degrees and when you look at him he smiles and turns away, when this happens, check his pupils, he might have actually been staring at you
If he invites you to a party
If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back, (but don't flirt with them just to find out if he likes you)
If he talks to you and wants to know how you're doing,
If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends,<3
If he asks about you to your friends when you're not around,
If he asks you to dance with him at the dance. Note: He may be trying to be nice because he thinks you like him
If he walks past you and tries to look cool so you can glance at him
If a guy tries to show you things he got that are somewhat expensive (e.g. a cellphone) or he tries to impress you,
If you notice when he gets out of class and starts to walk a little slower than usual, then he's trying to give you the opportunity to talk to him!
If he always talks to you there's a great chance that he likes you.
If he feels so awful letting you down that he lies.
If he would do anything to spend more time talking to you (e.g. if he talks/texts/exchange IM's to you until midnight).
If you realize that he ignores you when you're looking but when you look out of the corner of your eye, he turns back around to look back at you,
If he's talking to his friends and nodding like he's paying attention but you realize he's not, he's actually been staring at you the whole time!
If he walks down the hallway (at school) and he "accidentally" bumps/touches you, if he moves your chair or pulls your hair etc.
If he ignores you almost completely. For example, when you call his name he does nothing, but when your friend does, he pays attention. This is because he might be embarrassed or not sure how to approach you. Be careful, though, he might ignore because he just flat-out doesn't like you!
Monday, December 15, 2008
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